I signed up for Ffern months ago and, like many small decisions we make online, I forgot about it almost immediately. So when the package arrived at my door, it felt less like an order and more like a quiet surprise from a past version of myself.

I’m a guest at a May wedding this year, and I could not be more excited. We’re talking Playas de Tijuana… so: ocean breeze, good music, incredible food—and a bride who is effortlessly sophisticated. Which means I already know this is going to be that kind of party. The kind you remember.